Positive Feedbacks

(Wow! I never knew that we can still access www.blogspot.com. I thought nobody read my blogs nowadays)

Went over to Zilis’ office for a legal case meeting (which I think we will win yay!) and stopped over her office to chat.

Was actually trying to ask Zilis about how she feels about Mawi’s recent hu-ha. First the fiancé and then the dad. I knew she’ll answer, she doesn’t care, she loves Mawi no matter what.

Not that I care about how the engagement will end (I kinda predicted that it will end up this way, never expected it will be such a big hu-ha for four consecutive days! It event took up one whole page of Utusan the other day!) but I felt sympathy towards him and the whole family. Imagine your whole personal life is written in all papers in the nation. Foohhh…. I don’t think I could stand that. That’s why Clipperseep is born genius who will end up as gorgeous engineer.

Many had also asked about the 5 Love Language I’ve written. You guys loved it eh when it come to words LOVE. The first one that I read is plain 5 Love Language. Kana bought it and me and The Man were fighting over to read it. Then the author wrote another one, 5 Love Language for Children.

I haven’t written about Words of Affirmation (which Zilis thinks is hers). A child whose primary love language is Words of Affirmation, answered, when asked how did she know the mother loves her, “I knew it because she always tell me that she love me, that my hair looks nice, that she appreciate I help her with the garbage”.

After all, everybody needs positive feedback about themselves, don’t we?

Speaking of positive feedback, my office had just finished an exercise of writing 5 positive values of each one at work on a piece of paper and distribute it after that. The writer should remain anynomous but hey, I kinda know everyone’s handwriting. This is the list of what I can remember most of them write:

1. My two bosses which I reported to say that I am creative. In fact, creative is the only thing my direct boss wrote! (lazy bum, he is!)
2. that I am stylish, one even write ‘celebrity’ kakakah (jangan jealous eh)
3. committed to work, just like my boss.
4. hardworking
5. MD wrote that everything about me is fantastic
6. some wrote that I am organized (looks like the act of kononnya meja teratur berjaya!)
7. humble
8. knowledgeable
9. jovial and mesra
10. mizanoi, trying not to see my other traits, wrote “You are very helpful”.
11. good mother (I love this one)
12. sob wrote that I am a good blogger (of course I know it’s you, sob, who else read my blog at work? Or who else is given the permission to read my blog but you)
13. task oriented and willing to expand to doing other things (that come from the boss, you know! Looks like he wants me to do more of other job)
14. dependable
15. responsible
16. jay wrote that I am understanding (of course, after all the shits she put up and I am still there supporting her)

Isn’t it great?

Positive feedback is like food to our souls. We can only function well if our emotional tank is full, wrote Gary Chapman. So, drop me a comment requesting one and I will write you list of positive feedbacks so that it will just make your day! (jangan le malu!)