Wednesday, April 05, 2006
Not Talking to Me Huh?
Blogged this on Wednesday.
(So, I have not gotten over of what MizAnoi did to me, eh)
I wonder what are in the minds of these people who refused to talk to us whenever they feel like it?
First , of course they are very pissed off of things that they assume we have done. Then they don’t have the guts to tell us on what has pissed them off, what action of ours which has hurt them. They feel that they are entitled to be mad at us, and have the right to remain silence.
Action plan of theirs shall be: No good mornings, no smiles when shoulders are brushed against each other when there are only two of you in the elevator, in a meeting you shall be talked to with their beautiful faces facing 180 degrees of yours.
These people have very high tolerance of pain and even death. What could this means is they can afford to not asking for your help when they are at the verge of their death, perhaps.
Funny thing if they walk in to a room full of both you and they are familiar with, they will be scrambling looking for seats the furthest to you. They will try their best, too, to sit next to the person who jokes the best or who are the attention seekers. With that, they, those who are not talking to you, will feel safe be in the middle of these ‘powerful people’.
As for you, when you walk into the room and the only available of seats are the closest to these people, you, as unshameful as you have always been, will sit and smile and say hi anyways. The will pretend that you do not exist, gave a quick smile (if they are in the mood), unwillingly and continue ignoring you. I was advised not to cari pasal and to avoid being goody goody nice to these people, do not say hi if they are the ones who have stopped talking, BUT the stubborn clipperseep was degil anyway. Chances are these people will
(1) continue to ignore you
(2) snap you off and ask you to leave
(3) yell to you so that you’ll be embarrassed and leave the room terciput ciput kemaluan.
It does hurt, doesn’t it?
It hurts more when you don’t even know what wrongdoings have you caused to occur.
But I’m sure that these people have been hurt before. They’ve grown seeing how their parents treating each other with silence whenever there is a disagreement.
They could also be a blue-eyed girl in the family and will not tolerate people yelling at them when they are the peak of traumatic temporary insanity. People at home bow to these girls. They are raised to be confident that they can afford to serve your badly simply because they are much loved at home.
Try to be nice to them and they ‘ll feel much hurt. Funny huh…
You may want to regard them as standard two kids who pouted their mouth whenever they don’t feel like befriending people. Discouraging, isn’t it, trying to pretend that a 8 year old kid is getting the same paycheque as yours.
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